Social Selling – Love it or Hate it, you Gotta LIKE it

This article was well received when I first released it in December, 2013. However with the constant evolution and growth in various social media platforms and having a chance to write my book on digital transformation during this time, I would like to share the updated version of this article with you.

Every time you view a post on social media, you probably contemplate whether you should click the LIKE button or ignore it and move on to the next. You may also have wondered what the fuss is all about.

Is there really a benefit to LIKING a page or a post? Apart from satisfying one’s ego, does anybody really care? {       this }

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I’ve been a serious student of Social Media for almost a decade and what I’ve found is very few people understand the engagement process behind LIKESShould you LIKE every post you read, should you monitor your LIKES, is there a way to leverage the LIKES you receive? {       this }

For businesses that really seek to digitally transform their online brand image and how others perceive them in the social space, these are a few questions worth asking!

To help you understand the hidden dynamics behind LIKES, I’ve provided a simple explanation which will help you get significant results with social selling and achieve your digital transformation goals in the long run.


When you LIKE a post, you gain an introduction to the friends or contacts of whoever made the post. Imagine going to a party. You see a group of people enjoying themselves, introduce yourself and contribute to the conversation.
The more you contribute meaningfully, the more group members LIKE you and begin to show an interest. {       this }

In a social media context, as you begin to LIKE and comment on others’ posts, you will notice complete strangers beginning to LIKE your posts. This happens because your profile gets linked to the conversation and people begin to take note of you. You get notified when others LIKE you. As you begin to get more LIKES and shares, you are able to expand your network beyond your immediate connections. The leverage you gain in this way opens opportunities way beyond what you can get from your direct connections.


Even today, when I attend networking events I find people making the same mistake. They focus solely on trying to see who among the group is a likely target for their products and services. They then proceed to do a sales pitch, exchange business cards and hope they can convert at least one or two of the people they met to paying clients.

What’s wrong with that? What people don’t realise is that everyone they meet is connected to at least five others who may need their services. They don’t bother to gather intelligence about who else the members of the networking group know that could be potential clients.

When I log in to my LinkedIn account every day I find out more about the people who LIKE my posts or whose posts I find interesting. Who among their connections is my potential client? Which groups have they joined? Which business pages do they follow?

This way I know whom to invite as a connection and it also keeps me from accepting every invitation to connect.

Gathering intelligence prior to social selling and moving towards bigger digital transformation goals, can help you target the right prospects on social media channels instead of playing a guessing game by accepting every invitation to connect…hoping one of them can turn out to be your ideal client.


I use LIKES and comments on posts to build a knowledge base of topics and ideas I can later use to prepare engaging content in the form of articles, videos and infographics.

This is especially important for businesses that are seeking complete digital transformation and not looking just for immediate results rather want to leverage their knowledge base and valuable content for several years to come.

So when I see a particular topic generate a lot of LIKES or comments, I keep track of not just the topic but the people who LIKE the topic. Do certain people post with a higher frequency on specific topics?

Apart from providing insights about trending topics and topics of interest, knowledge gathered in this way also provides an indication of what to say and what not to say when posting comments and providing content. After all you don’t want to get bitten by posting comments that may be offensive, do you?


A lot of us on social media are like stalkers. We read valuable content and only think about how we can implement the knowledge gained for free in our business. What we fail to do is acknowledge the effort made in providing us with valuable information we would otherwise take hours trawling through the internet to find.

Imagine how you would feel if you provided valuable information to your client or gave away a free sample of your product and didn’t get so much as a “Thank You?” Would you like to have this person as a client?

It has been proven that social connectivity and networking is the number one driver for digital transformation. {       this }

The least, we can do is acknowledge the author by LIKING the post. To show greater appreciation, leave a positive comment and share the post with your connections.


As I have always emphasized, to win the social selling game use a strategic approach. Many business owners fail to understand that strategy is key to digital transformation.

While technology is only an enabler, strategic approach to social selling is what drives change. {       this }

For more details on a robust strategic approach to engaging on social media, feel free to view my post by clicking here.

Now you know what LIKES are all about. I hope the next time you’re on a social media site; you will take the time to acknowledge the valuable content others provide. As you all know, what goes around, comes around. If you found this post valuable, why not make a start by clicking the LIKE button and sharing it with your connections. I take the time to read all your comments and would love your feedback on this post.


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    • Amy
    • December 4, 2013

    Great article. You nailed the concept of social interactions via the internet perfectly. It isn’t so much about getting your name out there as it is making meaningful connections. If someone provides valuable content let them know. So thank you!

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    Some really solid ideas about basic social etiquette. I’ve been aware at some business meet ups of professionals who blatantly dismiss connections if there is not an immediate benefit. It is such a mistake, as we as social beings, often have connections outside our industry.

    Thanks for the reminder for readers like me (I prefer to think of myself as a lurker rather than stalker) to give something back as I would in any social situation. So here is my comment and “like”.

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      Thank you Jo Anne for your feedback and then giving us the ‘LIKE’ back :)

    • Angelo Anojan
    • December 3, 2013

    Thank you Celia. Glad you found it useful :)

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    This was a very helpful and informative post! Thank you very much for sharing and I will definitely be keeping this in mind when I am on my social network sites! :)